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-	{{info}}Since my father died on March 6, I have been looking through his papers. I found a small sheet with the following fifteen counsels, titled “Things I Have Learned.” He didn't make most of these up. Some of them go back to his college days when he was absorbing the pithy wisdom of <u>Bob Jones Senior</u>. They have again confirmed the obvious: I owe my father more than I can ever remember. The comment after each one is mine.	+	{{info}}Since my father died on March 6, I have been looking through his papers. I found a small sheet with the following fifteen counsels, titled “Things I Have Learned.” He didn't make most of these up. Some of them go back to his college days when he was absorbing the pithy wisdom of <u>Bob Jones Senior</u>. They have again confirmed the obvious: I owe my father more than I can ever remember. The comment after each one is mine.

-	==== Things I Have Learned ====	+	==== Things I Have Learned ====

-	1. The right road always leads to the right place; therefore, get on the right road and go as far as you can on it.	+	1. The right road always leads to the right place; therefore, get on the right road and go as far as you can on it.
		+	<blockquote>My father was totally persuaded that wrong means do not lead to right ends. Or, more positively, he was persuaded that living in the right way—that is, doing the right things—are means that inevitably lead to where God wants us to be. This is why he told me, when I asked about God’s leading in my life, “Son, keep the room clean where you are, and in God’s time, the door to the next room will open.” </blockquote>
		+	2. There is only one thing to do about anything; that is the right thing. Do right.
		+	<blockquote>This is what one might say to a person perplexed by a difficult situation whose outcome is unknown. The person might say, “I just don’t know what to do about this.” It is not useless to be told: Do the right thing. That may not tell you exactly which good thing to do, but it does clear the air and rule out a few dozen bad ideas. </blockquote>
		+	3. Happiness is not found by looking for it. You stumble over happiness on the road to duty.
		+	<blockquote>My, my, my. How was John Piper born from this? I would never say this. The main reason is that the Bible commands us to pursue our joy repeatedly. “Rejoice in the Lord, and again I say rejoice.” “Delight yourself in the Lord.” I think what he meant was: 1) Joy is always''in something''. Joy itself is not the ''something''. So we seek joy ''in Christ.'' Not just joy in general. 2) When duty is hard and we do not feel joy in doing it, we should still do it, and pray that in the doing it the joy would be given. But what we need to make plain is that duty cannot be contrasted with joy, because joy is a biblical duty. </blockquote>
		+	4. The door to success swings on the hinges of opposition.
		+	<blockquote>Remarkably, this saying implies that opposition is not just a natural accompaniment or antecedent of success, but that it is a means by which the door opens. One can think of many biblical examples. The opposition of Joseph’s brothers opened the door to his leadership in Egypt. The taxing of the empire opened the door to getting the Messiah born in Bethlehem, not Nazareth, and thus fulfilling prophecy. The betrayal of Judas opened the door to the salvation of the world. </blockquote>
		+	5. God in the right place in my life fixes every other relationship of life (Matthew 6:33).
		+	<blockquote>I wonder if this was tucked away in my mind so that unknown to me it controlled my analogy of the solar system to our many-faceted lives. If God is the blazing center of the solar system of our lives, then all the planets will be held in their proper orbit. But if not, everything goes awry. </blockquote>
		+	6. It is never right to get the right thing in the wrong way—like good grades, wealth, power, position. Don’t sacrifice your principles.
		+	<blockquote>Again, he hammers away at don’t use bad means for good ends. Be a principled, not a pragmatic, person. O how we need to hear this today. Churches need to be principled, not endlessly adapting to culture. Persons need to make a promise and keep it no matter how much it hurts. </blockquote>
		+	7. It is a sin to do less than your best. It is wrong to do [merely] well.
		+	<blockquote>“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might” (Ecclesiastes 9:10 ). But be careful. Sometimes the “best” is a B+ sermon and spending time with your child. In other words, “best” always involves more decisions than the one you are making at the moment. That one means many other things are being left undone. So “best” is always the whole thing, not just the detail of the moment. </blockquote>
		+	8. It is wrong to be yoked to one who refuses the yoke of Christ.
		+	<blockquote>Don’t marry an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:39). Not all relationships with unbelievers are ruled out. Otherwise we could not obey Jesus’ command to love them and bless them. But “yoke” implies a connectedness that either governs where we go or constrains where they go. And you cannot constrain faith in Jesus. It is free. </blockquote>
		+	9. The part of your character that is deficient is the part that needs attention.
		+	<blockquote>This is the counterpoint to the advice: Go with your strengths. There is truth in both. Yes, be encouraged by every evidence of God’s grace in your life, and use your gifts and graces for his glory. But you will become smug and vain if you do not keep your deficiencies before you and work on them. </blockquote>
		+	10. Don’t quit. Finish the job. God can’t use a quitter.
		+	<blockquote>Warning: “He who endures to the end will be saved” (Mark 13:13). Promise: “He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6). </blockquote>
		+	11. Anything you do that hinders your progress for God is wrong.
		+	<blockquote>O how thankful I am that this was the dominant way my father pressed me to pursue my sanctification. He did not mainly impose lists of don’ts on me, though we had them. And they were clear. Mainly he said: Maximize your progress in knowing and serving God. That ruled out a hundred foolish behaviors, some bad and some uselessly innocent. </blockquote>
		+	12. Beware of any society in which you feel compelled to put a bushel over your testimony.
		+	<blockquote>This implies that you can go into a group of people who are evil if you are willing to open your mouth and take a stand for Jesus and righteousness. Nevertheless, 1 Corinthians 15:33 stands: “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins good morals.’” </blockquote>
		+	13. It isn’t enough to be good. Be good for something. The essence of Christianity is not a passionless purity.
		+	<blockquote>This is what I have meant in talking about a merely avoidance ethic. Don’t just think of righteousness or holiness in terms of what you avoid, but what you do. As my father said in another place: Don’t be a don’ter; be a doer. </blockquote>
		+	14. Positive living produces negative effect[s].
	<blockquote>		<blockquote>
-	~~My father was totally persuaded~~ that ~~wrong means do not lead to right ends. Or, more positively, he was persuaded that living in~~ the ~~right way—that is, doing~~ the ~~right things—are means that inevitably lead to where God wants us to be~~. ~~This is why he told me, when I asked about God’s leading in my~~ life, ~~“Son, keep the room clean where~~ you ~~are, and in God’s time, the door~~ to the ~~next room will open~~.”	+	This is wise counsel that affirmation of the good always implies negation of the bad. If you think you can live your life without negating anything, you have lost touch with reality. “Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good” (Romans 12:9). You cannot love without hating what hurts the beloved.
	</blockquote>		</blockquote>
-	2. ~~There is only one thing~~ to ~~do about anything; that is the right thing. Do right~~.	+	15. Learn to be sweetly firm.
	<blockquote>		<blockquote>
-	This is what one ~~might say to a person perplexed by a difficult situation whose outcome is unknown. The person might say, “I just don’t know what to do about this.” It is not useless to be told~~: ~~Do the right thing~~. ~~That may not tell you exactly which good thing to do, but it does clear the air and rule out a few dozen bad ideas~~.	+	This was what he said to my mother over the phone when she was exasperated with her one disobedient son: Be sweet and firm. I think she succeeded.
	</blockquote>		</blockquote>
-	~~3. Happiness is not found by looking for it. You stumble over happiness on the road to duty.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	My, my, my. How was John Piper born from this? I would never say this. The main reason is that the Bible commands us to pursue our joy repeatedly. “Rejoice in the Lord, and again I say rejoice.” “Delight yourself in the Lord.” I think what he meant was: 1) Joy is always''in something''. Joy itself is not the ''something''. So we seek joy ''in Christ.'' Not just joy in general. 2) When duty is hard and we do not feel joy in doing it, we should still do it, and pray that in the doing it the joy would be given. But what we need to make plain is that duty cannot be contrasted with joy, because joy is a biblical duty.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~4. The door to success swings on the hinges of opposition.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	Remarkably, this saying implies that opposition is not just a natural accompaniment or antecedent of success, but that it is a means by which the door opens. One can think of many biblical examples. The opposition of Joseph’s brothers opened the door to his leadership in Egypt. The taxing of the empire opened the door to getting the Messiah born in Bethlehem, not Nazareth, and thus fulfilling prophecy. The betrayal of Judas opened the door to the salvation of the world.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~5. God in the right place in my life fixes every other relationship of life (Matthew 6:33).~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	I wonder if this was tucked away in my mind so that unknown to me it controlled my analogy of the solar system to our many-faceted lives. If God is the blazing center of the solar system of our lives, then all the planets will be held in their proper orbit. But if not, everything goes awry.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~6. It is never right to get the right thing in the wrong way—like good grades, wealth, power, position. Don’t sacrifice your principles.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	Again, he hammers away at don’t use bad means for good ends. Be a principled, not a pragmatic, person. O how we need to hear this today. Churches need to be principled, not endlessly adapting to culture. Persons need to make a promise and keep it no matter how much it hurts.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~7. It is a sin to do less than your best. It is wrong to do [merely] well.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might” (Ecclesiastes 9:10 ). But be careful. Sometimes the “best” is a B+ sermon and spending time with your child. In other words, “best” always involves more decisions than the one you are making at the moment. That one means many other things are being left undone. So “best” is always the whole thing, not just the detail of the moment.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~8. It is wrong to be yoked to one who refuses the yoke of Christ.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	Don’t marry an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:39). Not all relationships with unbelievers are ruled out. Otherwise we could not obey Jesus’ command to love them and bless them. But “yoke” implies a connectedness that either governs where we go or constrains where they go. And you cannot constrain faith in Jesus. It is free.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~9. The part of your character that is deficient is the part that needs attention.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	This is the counterpoint to the advice: Go with your strengths. There is truth in both. Yes, be encouraged by every evidence of God’s grace in your life, and use your gifts and graces for his glory. But you will become smug and vain if you do not keep your deficiencies before you and work on them.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~10. Don’t quit. Finish the job. God can’t use a quitter.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	~~Warning: “He who endures to the end will be saved” (Mark 13:13). Promise: “He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6).~~
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~11. Anything you do that hinders your progress for God is wrong.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	O how thankful I am that this was the dominant way my father pressed me to pursue my sanctification. He did not mainly impose lists of don’ts on me, though we had them. And they were clear. Mainly he said: Maximize your progress in knowing and serving God. That ruled out a hundred foolish behaviors, some bad and some uselessly innocent.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~12. Beware of any society in which you feel compelled to put a bushel over your testimony.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	This implies that you can go into a group of people who are evil if you are willing to open your mouth and take a stand for Jesus and righteousness. Nevertheless, 1 Corinthians 15:33 stands: “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins good morals.’”
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~13. It isn’t enough to be good. Be good for something. The essence of Christianity is not a passionless purity.~~
-	~~<blockquote>~~
-	This is what I have meant in talking about a merely avoidance ethic. Don’t just think of righteousness or holiness in terms of what you avoid, but what you do. As my father said in another place: Don’t be a don’ter; be a doer.
-	~~</blockquote>~~
-	~~14. Positive living produces negative effect[s].~~
-
-	This is wise counsel that affirmation of the good always implies negation of the bad. If you think you can live your life without negating anything, you have lost touch with reality. “Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good” (Romans 12:9). You cannot love without hating what hurts the beloved.
-
-	~~15. Learn to be sweetly firm.~~
-
-	~~This was what he said to my mother over the phone when she was exasperated with her one disobedient son: Be sweet and firm. I think she succeeded.~~
-
	With abiding and deep thankfulness for my father’s wisdom,		With abiding and deep thankfulness for my father’s wisdom,

	Pastor John		Pastor John

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{{info}}Since my father died on March 6, I have been looking through his papers. I found a small sheet with the following fifteen counsels, titled “Things I Have Learned.” He didn't make most of these up. Some of them go back to his college days when he was absorbing the pithy wisdom of <u>Bob Jones Senior</u>. They have again confirmed the obvious: I owe my father more than I can ever remember. The comment after each one is mine. 

==== Things I Have Learned ====

1. The right road always leads to the right place; therefore, get on the right road and go as far as you can on it.
<blockquote>
My father was totally persuaded that wrong means do not lead to right ends. Or, more positively, he was persuaded that living in the right way—that is, doing the right things—are means that inevitably lead to where God wants us to be. This is why he told me, when I asked about God’s leading in my life, “Son, keep the room clean where you are, and in God’s time, the door to the next room will open.”
</blockquote>
2. There is only one thing to do about anything; that is the right thing. Do right.
<blockquote>
This is what one might say to a person perplexed by a difficult situation whose outcome is unknown. The person might say, “I just don’t know what to do about this.” It is not useless to be told: Do the right thing. That may not tell you exactly which good thing to do, but it does clear the air and rule out a few dozen bad ideas.
</blockquote>
3. Happiness is not found by looking for it. You stumble over happiness on the road to duty.
<blockquote>
My, my, my. How was John Piper born from this? I would never say this. The main reason is that the Bible commands us to pursue our joy repeatedly. “Rejoice in the Lord, and again I say rejoice.” “Delight yourself in the Lord.” I think what he meant was: 1) Joy is always''in something''. Joy itself is not the ''something''. So we seek joy ''in Christ.'' Not just joy in general. 2) When duty is hard and we do not feel joy in doing it, we should still do it, and pray that in the doing it the joy would be given. But what we need to make plain is that duty cannot be contrasted with joy, because joy is a biblical duty.
</blockquote>
4. The door to success swings on the hinges of opposition.
<blockquote>
Remarkably, this saying implies that opposition is not just a natural accompaniment or antecedent of success, but that it is a means by which the door opens. One can think of many biblical examples. The opposition of Joseph’s brothers opened the door to his leadership in Egypt. The taxing of the empire opened the door to getting the Messiah born in Bethlehem, not Nazareth, and thus fulfilling prophecy. The betrayal of Judas opened the door to the salvation of the world.
</blockquote>
5. God in the right place in my life fixes every other relationship of life (Matthew 6:33).
<blockquote>
I wonder if this was tucked away in my mind so that unknown to me it controlled my analogy of the solar system to our many-faceted lives. If God is the blazing center of the solar system of our lives, then all the planets will be held in their proper orbit. But if not, everything goes awry.
</blockquote>
6. It is never right to get the right thing in the wrong way—like good grades, wealth, power, position. Don’t sacrifice your principles.
<blockquote>
Again, he hammers away at don’t use bad means for good ends. Be a principled, not a pragmatic, person. O how we need to hear this today. Churches need to be principled, not endlessly adapting to culture. Persons need to make a promise and keep it no matter how much it hurts.
</blockquote>
7. It is a sin to do less than your best. It is wrong to do [merely] well.
<blockquote>
“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might” (Ecclesiastes 9:10 ). But be careful. Sometimes the “best” is a B+ sermon and spending time with your child. In other words, “best” always involves more decisions than the one you are making at the moment. That one means many other things are being left undone. So “best” is always the whole thing, not just the detail of the moment.
</blockquote>
8. It is wrong to be yoked to one who refuses the yoke of Christ.
<blockquote>
Don’t marry an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:39). Not all relationships with unbelievers are ruled out. Otherwise we could not obey Jesus’ command to love them and bless them. But “yoke” implies a connectedness that either governs where we go or constrains where they go. And you cannot constrain faith in Jesus. It is free.
</blockquote>
9. The part of your character that is deficient is the part that needs attention.
<blockquote>
This is the counterpoint to the advice: Go with your strengths. There is truth in both. Yes, be encouraged by every evidence of God’s grace in your life, and use your gifts and graces for his glory. But you will become smug and vain if you do not keep your deficiencies before you and work on them.
</blockquote>
10. Don’t quit. Finish the job. God can’t use a quitter.
<blockquote>
Warning: “He who endures to the end will be saved” (Mark 13:13). Promise: “He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6).
</blockquote>
11. Anything you do that hinders your progress for God is wrong.
<blockquote>
O how thankful I am that this was the dominant way my father pressed me to pursue my sanctification. He did not mainly impose lists of don’ts on me, though we had them. And they were clear. Mainly he said: Maximize your progress in knowing and serving God. That ruled out a hundred foolish behaviors, some bad and some uselessly innocent.
</blockquote>
12. Beware of any society in which you feel compelled to put a bushel over your testimony.
<blockquote>
This implies that you can go into a group of people who are evil if you are willing to open your mouth and take a stand for Jesus and righteousness. Nevertheless, 1 Corinthians 15:33 stands: “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company ruins good morals.’”
</blockquote>
13. It isn’t enough to be good. Be good for something. The essence of Christianity is not a passionless purity.
<blockquote>
This is what I have meant in talking about a merely avoidance ethic. Don’t just think of righteousness or holiness in terms of what you avoid, but what you do. As my father said in another place: Don’t be a don’ter; be a doer.
</blockquote>
14. Positive living produces negative effect[s].

This is wise counsel that affirmation of the good always implies negation of the bad. If you think you can live your life without negating anything, you have lost touch with reality. “Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good” (Romans 12:9). You cannot love without hating what hurts the beloved.

15. Learn to be sweetly firm.

This was what he said to my mother over the phone when she was exasperated with her one disobedient son: Be sweet and firm. I think she succeeded.

With abiding and deep thankfulness for my father’s wisdom,

Pastor John